Our
readings have very encouraging lessons. In the First Reading (Ez 37), the
prophet points out the power of God’s Word. It can open graves and make people
live! Prophet Ezekiel was speaking figuratively referring to the Israelites who
were like dry bones. They were feeling homesick, discouraged and depressed
because of their exile in Babylon. God, through Ezekiel, gave them hope and strength.
He promised them “I will raise you up!”
Our
Gospel (Jn 11), the seventh and last sign performed by Jesus, is
actually a story of a family from Bethany very close to Jesus. Jesus was
immediately informed by the family in Galilee when Lazarus got sick. But strange, he did not
panic. He even stayed for two days more saying “this sickness will not end up
in death but for God’s glory.” When he finally arrived, Lazarus had been buried
for four days. But Jesus brought him back to life! Jesus did something
extraordinary. Amazingly, he literally raised up Lazarus!
There
are two lessons we can learn from this episode. One, nothing is impossible with God! We just have to believe. Jesus
asked Martha: “I am the Resurrection and the Life.. Do you believe me?” An
author once wrote: “there is never a moment when God is not in control. So
relax! He’s got you covered.”
The
second is, God’s Word is powerful. He
is the source of our encouragement and strength. But also our words are
powerful. It can impact another’s life especially in the context of the family.
Thus, we need to find the good in each other. I believe, it is the love of the family
that sustains us. One practical way to build up each other is through affirmation. Somebody said: “Affirmation
are mental vitamins providing the supplementary positive thoughts we need to
balance the barrage of negative events and thoughts we experience daily.”
I
have three suggestions for us our families: A. Choose your
words wisely because words can either build up or destroy. In the family, we
need to pay attention to the words we use. Are they kind? Hurtful? Negative or
inspiring words? B. Affirmation is a
language of love. It shows how much you care; how much you value that person. Let
us be generous in affirming our parents, siblings, friends; our medical
frontliners. C. Make it a habit. Choose
to build up each other daily. Our words matter. It can give life.
Prayer:
Lord, give me wisdom to choose my words wisely so that I can be generous in
affirming those around me. Amen.
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